Finding Hope in Community
A Reflection by Susan Rizo, Sacred Circle Facilitator
My spiritual director and I were conversing, and she asked me how I am doing in my spiritual walk. “Well,” I said, “ I think I have weathered the storm of transition pretty well over the last few years, with retiring and moving to Mexico with my husband.” I have remained hopeful during times of transition and difficulty by staying connected to my faith community and friends who have been a deep spiritual support.
A seeker by nature, I look to my faith and those who surround me to be a beacon of hope when I’m feeling distressed. One such experience happened last year when I lost one of my dear soul sister friends. Her death took my breath away. I texted my other soul sisters, a group of women who had journeyed with Sandy as well, and told them I was struggling. I asked if we could talk.
We agreed to facetime and share how we were feeling about Sandy and her unexpected passing. Holding space with these gals and sharing our deep sorrow encouraged me to hold on and be with my heartache. We continued to meet weekly to check in and pray with and for one another. Now—months and months later—we are still meeting once a week. We initially carved out this time to grieve Sandy and soon realized how important it is to continue these connections. We all live in different places now, and I had missed being with them. Being together again has been a gift. We often chuckle and claim Sandy brought us back together, which is just like her.
For me, reaching out and seeking the support of my parishioners, friends near and far, daily reflections, and contemplative prayer have all given me hope and helped me center myself. I am thankful these seeds were planted within me at an early age, and that the vine continues to grow, even as it’s been pruned by life’s circumstances.
I am the vine and you are the branches. If you remain in Me and I in you, you will bear much fruit. John 15:15
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